I have observed my husband come into Aliveworld and check it out. He was initially attempting to support me and my endeavours here, then he wanted to understand how it worked and so he joined and began working through the free "Change Your Future" Guide. Initially he thought there was nothing here that would meet his specific need so decided to set some work for himself in the CYF guide. Next he briefly explored a few communities. The outcome of this was that he felt "Connected" with the Mindful Healing community and although he dislikes spending much time on his computer he now has a habit of checking in and working on his practices for a significant amount of time each day.

The most delightful thing to me is that he has stopped talking about what he needs to do to improve his health and sense of wellbeing and is actively doing it. Now he is playing golf regularly, participating in a group exercise programme, doing regular meditation practice and has consulted a series of medical practioners about a long term health issue and no longer accepts "there is nothing more we can do for you".

 When I talked to him about this  - he has explained that although he knew about change and the process, this environment gave him the structure and support to stay with it.  Each time he returned to the site he understood the incomplete tasks were his desire being displayed before him. He was able to control the pace and the way he managed this. There was support if and when he wanted it and there was also a coach to help with the hard bits which lessened the stress of doing it alone.

Seeing the ACTION cycle happen after many years of talking about "what I want to do is......"  amazed me. 

Not needing to be the nag, or having to listen to the disappointment or annoyance of the change process getting hard and not happening for him, was wonderful for me as a life partner.  

Having witnessed this behavior and knowing that it will benefit his health and consequently our time together is life changing.